Hi (re)Parenting Tribe,
In my coaching practice this week, I witnessed a profound revelation that I felt called to share. π A client was exploring why people in his life seemed interested only in his financial support rather than genuine connection. As we dug deeper, we discovered that whenever he set financial boundaries, a deep sense of being "selfish" would arise - a label his mother had repeatedly used when he didn't share as a child.
This single word - "selfish" - had embedded itself so deeply in his programming that decades later, it was still orchestrating his reality, compelling him to prove his generosity even at the cost of authentic relationships.
β‘οΈ This got me thinking about the subtle yet powerful way words shape our reality. Take, for example, two simple phrases we use daily: "I have to" versus "I get to."
When we say "I have to go to work," we're programming resistance and obligation. But when we shift to "I get to go to work," we activate gratitude and opportunity. It's the same action, but the energetic imprint is completely different.
This mirrors exactly what happens in childhood. When we tell a child they're "selfish," we program scarcity and unworthiness. When we acknowledge their boundaries as healthy, we program self-worth and discernment.
π This Week's Transformative Insight: I just published "Breaking the Echo: The Sacred Power of Words" - a deep dive into how our childhood programming shapes our adult reality. In this blog, you'll discover:
- How to transform limiting language into empowering truths
- Practical steps for breaking generational patterns
- Tools for conscious reprogramming
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HERE IS A GLIMPSE FROM THIS WEEK'S BLOG POST
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BREAKING THE CYCLE
FROM ECHO TO EMPOWERMENT
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The good news? The same powerful mechanism of belief can be harnessed for transformation. Instead of unconsciously passing down the limiting narratives we inherited, we can consciously choose to
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PLANT SEEDS OF POSSIBILITY
- Replace "be careful" with "I trust you to be aware"
- Transform "don't be afraid" into "you are courageous"
- Shift "don't cry" to "it's safe to feel your feelings"
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MODEL WHAT YOU WANT TO TEACH
- They learn not just from our words, but from who we are
- They absorb our relationship with ourselves
- They mirror our handling of emotions and challenges
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SPEAK NEW TRUTHS INTO EXISTENCE
- "You are a natural problem solver"
- βYou are strong and resilientβ
- "Your creativity knows no bounds"
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More Resources for Your Journey
β‘οΈ Also explore "The Power of Language: From 'Have to' to 'Get to'" - where you will examine how two simple words can reshape your entire reality. This powerful companion piece shows you specific techniques for elevating your vibration through conscious word choice.
β‘οΈ While you're there, browse my blog collection covering topics like:
- Conscious parenting
- Emotional intelligence
- Relationship transformation
- Personal sovereignty
- Energy mastery
π Exciting Book Announcement! This deep understanding of how words impact developing minds is precisely why I am creating the Awaken the One collection of children's books.
I'm thrilled to announce the official publication date for "Courage Finds His Calm",
August 5, 2025!
π° Through Courage's journey, children learn not just mindfulness techniques, but the empowering language of self-regulation and emotional intelligence. When Courage's sandcastle collapses, he doesn't just learn breathing techniques - he learns to transform his relationship with challenging emotions through conscious awareness and empowering self-talk.
π Discover more about the complete Awaken the One book collection and our mission to transform children's literature at our new website: https://awakentheone.orgβ
We're launching our Kickstarter campaign on March 4, 2025, to bring this vision to life. This isn't just a children's book - it's a tool for breaking generational patterns and creating new possibilities for emotional intelligence.
ARE YOU READY TO START YOUR (re)PARENTING JOURNEY?
I have carefully curated and designed the Complete Guide to (re)Parenting Yourself, just for you!! START NOW to change the subconscious beliefs that are keeping you from creating the reality you desire.
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Here's to transforming old programming into new possibilities - from limitation to liberation, from fear to love, from conditioning to conscious creation. π¦
With love and light,
Note: If you would like to learn more about how you can let go of the disempowering beliefs running in your operating system, I am here to lead the way.
Email me at: [email protected] or
Book a free 30-minute consultation with this link:https://calendly.com/30min-breakthrough-callβ
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